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				<description><![CDATA[<img width="760" height="380" src="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/What-is-the-essential-factor-for-building-successful-teams-.jpg?fit=760%2C380&amp;ssl=1" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" fetchpriority="high" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/What-is-the-essential-factor-for-building-successful-teams-.jpg?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/What-is-the-essential-factor-for-building-successful-teams-.jpg?resize=600%2C300&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/What-is-the-essential-factor-for-building-successful-teams-.jpg?resize=300%2C150&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/What-is-the-essential-factor-for-building-successful-teams-.jpg?resize=760%2C380&amp;ssl=1 760w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/What-is-the-essential-factor-for-building-successful-teams-.jpg?resize=518%2C259&amp;ssl=1 518w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/What-is-the-essential-factor-for-building-successful-teams-.jpg?resize=82%2C41&amp;ssl=1 82w" sizes="(max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px" /><p>The axiom,“The whole is greater than the sum of its parts,” originated with Aristotle. In today’s culture this is perhaps more evident than ever. Leadership, human resources, and coach education programs emphasize the value of teamwork. Those who actively foster a team environment in their organizations are the ones who rise to the pinnacle of [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>2 Leaders of High Performing Teams</strong></span></h2>
<p>Pete Carroll is the head coach of the Seattle Seahawks. His coaching philosophy centers around relationships, brotherhood, and team commitment. One example of this is the “I’m IN” slogan that every player taps as they leave the locker room to take the field. In the 2013-2014 NFL season, the Super Bowl Champion Seattle Seahawks did not have the highest paid talent, but they put a premium on playing as a team for the betterment of the team.</p>
<p>“Coming together is a beginning. Keeping together is progress. Working together is success,” said Henry Ford. We see this philosophy play out in sports, business, and non-profit organizations. It is a fundamental concept. A leader must be able to bring his or her team together and work in unison toward the organization’s goals.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #800000;"><b>The Value of Cohesion</b></span></h2>
<p>When it comes to building great teams, it starts with cohesion. Why is team cohesiveness so important?</p>
<p>Let’s begin with a definition for cohesion. Cohesion is comprised of multidimensional forces causing groups to stick together, resist disruptive forces, and unite in the pursuit of group goals and objectives (Festinger et al., 1963; Gross and Martin, 1952; Cota et al., 1995; Mudpack, 1989). When teams talk about having chemistry, having bonds, and gelling together, this is what they mean.</p>
<p>In a survey of 65 U.S. Olympic coaches from the 1996 Atlanta and 1994 Nagano Olympic Games, cohesion was identified as one of the top three factors influencing success (Gould et al., 2002).</p>
<p>Researchers have confirmed that, in sports, a team’s cohesiveness is linked to their performance. Carron et al. (2002) found that more cohesive teams outperform less cohesive teams. Furthermore, while cohesion leads to greater success, greater success also increases a team’s cohesiveness.</p>
<p>When it comes to group development, group maintenance and achieving group goals and objectives, Galembiewski et al. (1974) found that cohesiveness was the single most important factor.</p>
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<p>In your pursuit of building a high performing team, cultivating cohesion is an essential target area.</p>
<p>So, how do you cultivate cohesion in your team?</p>
<h2><span style="color: #800000;"><b>How to Cultivate Team Cohesion</b></span></h2>
<p>To increase team cohesion, leaders must foster the group through the four stages of team development: forming, storming, norming, and performing (Tuckman, 1965).</p>
<p>When organizations struggle to perform (get results), leaders often focus on strategy and techniques, when the real problem is a lack of cohesion within the team.</p>
<p>Team building is the best way to walk a team through these progressive stages. Research by Carron and Spink (1993) demonstrate that a team building intervention program has a substantial impact on perceptions of cohesiveness and on individual’s desirable behaviors within organizations.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #800000;"><b>Why Invest in Team Building</b></span></h2>
<p>Leaders should deliberately create team building opportunities for their teams.</p>
<p>I’m not talking about ice cream socials, trust falls, or a pilgrimage to the Andes Mountains. While those can all be fun activities, the purpose in doing them must be made clear.</p>
<p>Brawley and Paskevich (1997) define team building as a “method of helping a group increase effectiveness, satisfy the needs of its members, and improve work conditions.” Team building, whatever the event, is about bringing people together for common goals, communicating, growing, and then channeling this cohesion into organizational efforts.</p>
<p>The main goal of team building is to enhance communication, motivation, and productivity. Team building does that. However, there are numerous additional benefits to bolster the case for making team building a consistent part of your organizational development program. This is for athletes, employees, ministry teams, etc.</p>
<p>Additional benefits of team building:</p>
<ul>
<li>increases morale</li>
<li>greater acceptance of roles and responsibilities</li>
<li>increases engagement</li>
<li>illuminates a team’s strengths &amp; weaknesses</li>
<li>identifies leadership skills</li>
<li>improves problem solving</li>
<li>enhances collaboration</li>
<li>increases revenue</li>
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<h2><span style="color: #800000;"><b>Great Leaders Build Great Teams</b></span></h2>
<p>This is what success is built on. Great teams have high cohesion. Team building helps you get there. As a leader, your job is to make your team successful. In the case of team building, that might include getting out of the office, having some fun, and getting a little crazy once in a while.</p>
<p><i><b>Question: What is one factor that gets in the way of building team cohesion?</b></i></p>
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				<description><![CDATA[<img width="760" height="380" src="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/How-To-Reach-Athletes-Who-Are-Not-Coachable.png?fit=760%2C380&amp;ssl=1" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/How-To-Reach-Athletes-Who-Are-Not-Coachable.png?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/How-To-Reach-Athletes-Who-Are-Not-Coachable.png?resize=600%2C300&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/How-To-Reach-Athletes-Who-Are-Not-Coachable.png?resize=300%2C150&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/How-To-Reach-Athletes-Who-Are-Not-Coachable.png?resize=760%2C380&amp;ssl=1 760w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/How-To-Reach-Athletes-Who-Are-Not-Coachable.png?resize=518%2C259&amp;ssl=1 518w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/How-To-Reach-Athletes-Who-Are-Not-Coachable.png?resize=82%2C41&amp;ssl=1 82w" sizes="(max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px" /><p>One of the first evaluations made of an athlete is whether or not he or she is coachable. Many coaches will select a less talented player who is coachable over a more talented player who isn’t coachable. What is it that prevents an athlete from being coachable in the first place? A fragile mindset Like [&#8230;]</p>
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					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img width="760" height="380" src="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/How-To-Reach-Athletes-Who-Are-Not-Coachable.png?fit=760%2C380&amp;ssl=1" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" loading="lazy" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/How-To-Reach-Athletes-Who-Are-Not-Coachable.png?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/How-To-Reach-Athletes-Who-Are-Not-Coachable.png?resize=600%2C300&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/How-To-Reach-Athletes-Who-Are-Not-Coachable.png?resize=300%2C150&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/How-To-Reach-Athletes-Who-Are-Not-Coachable.png?resize=760%2C380&amp;ssl=1 760w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/How-To-Reach-Athletes-Who-Are-Not-Coachable.png?resize=518%2C259&amp;ssl=1 518w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/How-To-Reach-Athletes-Who-Are-Not-Coachable.png?resize=82%2C41&amp;ssl=1 82w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px" /><p>One of the first evaluations made of an athlete is whether or not he or she is coachable. Many coaches will select a less talented player who is coachable over a more talented player who isn’t coachable. What is it that prevents an athlete from being coachable in the first place?<span id="more-604"></span></p><a href="https://theexcellingedge.com/how-to-reach-athletes-who-are-not-coachable/"><img width="760" height="380" src="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/How-To-Reach-Athletes-Who-Are-Not-Coachable.png?fit=760%2C380&amp;ssl=1" class="featured-image wp-post-image" alt="" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/How-To-Reach-Athletes-Who-Are-Not-Coachable.png?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/How-To-Reach-Athletes-Who-Are-Not-Coachable.png?resize=600%2C300&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/How-To-Reach-Athletes-Who-Are-Not-Coachable.png?resize=300%2C150&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/How-To-Reach-Athletes-Who-Are-Not-Coachable.png?resize=760%2C380&amp;ssl=1 760w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/How-To-Reach-Athletes-Who-Are-Not-Coachable.png?resize=518%2C259&amp;ssl=1 518w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/How-To-Reach-Athletes-Who-Are-Not-Coachable.png?resize=82%2C41&amp;ssl=1 82w" sizes="(max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px" /></a>
<h3><span style="color: #800000;"><b>A fragile mindset</b></span></h3>
<p>Like many coaches, I’ve had the unfortunate experience of coaching seemingly un-coachable athletes. It is a frustrating experience. One tennis player stands out in my mind. He was talented, but he was a bit of a head case. Watching his matches was often like riding a roller coaster. His emotions rose and fell with each point won or error made.</p>
<p>As his mental coach, I asked a lot of questions and observed his reactions in practice and in competition. It became evident that his outward confidence was mostly bravado. He clung to the identity of being a good tennis player. Yet, it was as if each point either confirmed or denied the validity of this claim. A mistake proved he was inadequate. A winner validated what he so desperately wanted to be true: <i>I’m a good player</i>.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #800000;"><b>A fixed mindset</b></span></h3>
<p>Based on the work of Dr. Carol Dweck, author of <i><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0345472322/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0345472322&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=theexcedg-20&amp;linkId=2ZYIGK4SS4MZT3MI">Mindsets: A New Psychology of Success</a></i>, I’d characterize the above athlete as having a fixed mindset. He believed that his tennis abilities were set. He had to make do with the hand he’d been dealt. Every instance proved or disproved whether or not those abilities were good enough.</p>
<p>Athletes in a fixed mindset don’t value effort, believe hard work is less valuable than talent and become intimidated by the success of others. <i>To be clear, this doesn’t mean they can’t be successful players. So long as their abilities match the demands placed on them, they’ll often do very well.</i></p>
<p>However, when they face real challenges, their fixed mindsets cause them to cover up insecurities. They are likely to back out, self-sabatague or give less than their best effort to provide a convenient excuse when they don’t come out on top.</p>
<p>In a fixed mindset, an athlete&#8217;s motivation comes from upholding the image that he or she is skilled. Anything or anyone who is perceived as questioning that image is viewed as a threat. Threats infringe on their egos. Thus, athletes in a fixed mindset act defensive.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #800000;"><b>Why it’s tough to coach a fixed mindset</b></span></h3>
<p>If a player believes his or her sport specific ability can’t change, then it makes sense why he or she would:</p>
<div>1. not value hard work</div>
<div>2. ignore valuable feedback</div>
<div>3. be intimidated by other’s successes</div>
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<p>Consequently, players in a fixed mindset never reach their potentials.</p>
<p>If they don’t think they can improve, then why work hard and be receptive to a coach’s feedback? It is easy to see how a coach (or parent) could get frustrated by an athlete in a fixed mindset.</p>
<p>So, is that it? Is there nothing a coach can do to help an athlete in a fixed mindset become more coachable? In fact, there are at least two things you can do.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #800000;">Foster a Growth Mindset in Your Athletes</span></h2>
<p><b>By highlighting two specific aspects of a player’s performance, you can help foster a <a href="http://wp.me/p3SY2C-4c">growth mindset</a></b> <b>&#8211; one in which players are highly coachable.</b></p>
<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><b>1. Highlight Effort</b></div>
<div style="padding-left: 30px;">Players in a fixed mindset don’t value effort because they don’t believe it pays off. As a coach, highlighting exactly when and how effort has paid off for that player chisels away at the wrongful beliefs holding them back.</div>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">An example might sound like, “Look at all the time you’ve put in at the free throw line in practice. Based on your free throw percentage moving up to 85%, I’d say that hard work is paying off.&#8221;</p>
<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><b>2. Highlight Development</b></div>
<div style="padding-left: 30px;">Remember that players in a fixed mindset don’t really believe they can get significantly better with practice. This may cause them to slack off in practice or refrain from putting forth their fullest effort. Highlighting the ways an athlete has improved in his or her skill, strategy, leadership or in-game situations demonstrates that, in fact, they are improving.</div>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">An example might sound like, “Great job reading the different defensive looks that team threw at you. Throughout the season your decision making at the line has really improved.&#8221;</p>
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<p>As a coach, you’ve seen players in a fixed mindset countless times before. They rely on talent and don’t like to get outside their comfort zones. But this mindset stifles their true potentials.</p>
<p>By highlighting their effort and development, you can encourage them to challenge their beliefs. Before long the evidence will be undeniable that indeed hard work does pay off and they can improve. Now, that’s coachable.</p>
<p><i><b>Question: What frustrates you most about a player who isn’t coachable? Leave your comment in the section below this post. </b></i></p>
<div><b>Links:</b></div>
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<li>Book: <i><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0345472322/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0345472322&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=theexcedg-20&amp;linkId=2ZYIGK4SS4MZT3MI">Mindset: The New Psychology of Success</a></i> by Carol Dweck<i> </i></li>
<li>Post: <a href="http://wp.me/p3SY2C-4c">Why Is A Growth Mindset Required To Reach Your Potential?</a></li>
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				<description><![CDATA[<img width="760" height="380" src="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3-Ways-Synchronization-Gets-Results.png?fit=760%2C380&amp;ssl=1" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" loading="lazy" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3-Ways-Synchronization-Gets-Results.png?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3-Ways-Synchronization-Gets-Results.png?resize=600%2C300&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3-Ways-Synchronization-Gets-Results.png?resize=300%2C150&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3-Ways-Synchronization-Gets-Results.png?resize=760%2C380&amp;ssl=1 760w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3-Ways-Synchronization-Gets-Results.png?resize=518%2C259&amp;ssl=1 518w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3-Ways-Synchronization-Gets-Results.png?resize=82%2C41&amp;ssl=1 82w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px" /><p>Why is effective communication essential for team success? Communication builds empathy and understanding and gets people on the same page. Effective communication breeds synchronization, an alignment of purpose and effort. Highly effective teams, regardless of context, thrive because team members are synchronized with one another. Synchronization in a Kayak Some say that putting a married couple in a tandem kayak is risking [&#8230;]</p>
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					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img width="760" height="380" src="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3-Ways-Synchronization-Gets-Results.png?fit=760%2C380&amp;ssl=1" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" loading="lazy" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3-Ways-Synchronization-Gets-Results.png?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3-Ways-Synchronization-Gets-Results.png?resize=600%2C300&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3-Ways-Synchronization-Gets-Results.png?resize=300%2C150&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3-Ways-Synchronization-Gets-Results.png?resize=760%2C380&amp;ssl=1 760w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3-Ways-Synchronization-Gets-Results.png?resize=518%2C259&amp;ssl=1 518w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3-Ways-Synchronization-Gets-Results.png?resize=82%2C41&amp;ssl=1 82w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px" /><p>Why is effective communication essential for team success? Communication builds empathy and understanding and gets people on the same page. Effective communication breeds synchronization, an alignment of purpose and effort. Highly effective teams, regardless of context, thrive because team members are synchronized with one another.<span id="more-551"></span></p><a href="https://theexcellingedge.com/3-ways-synchronization-drives-results/"><img width="760" height="380" src="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3-Ways-Synchronization-Gets-Results.png?fit=760%2C380&amp;ssl=1" class="featured-image wp-post-image" alt="" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3-Ways-Synchronization-Gets-Results.png?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3-Ways-Synchronization-Gets-Results.png?resize=600%2C300&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3-Ways-Synchronization-Gets-Results.png?resize=300%2C150&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3-Ways-Synchronization-Gets-Results.png?resize=760%2C380&amp;ssl=1 760w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3-Ways-Synchronization-Gets-Results.png?resize=518%2C259&amp;ssl=1 518w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/3-Ways-Synchronization-Gets-Results.png?resize=82%2C41&amp;ssl=1 82w" sizes="(max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px" /></a>
<h3><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Synchronization in a Kayak</strong></span></h3>
<p>Some say that putting a married couple in a tandem kayak is risking their marriage. My wife and I have tested this theory on several occasions. It&#8217;s been a great exercise in communication.</p>
<p><strong>There are 3 actions I found tremendously helpful in our tandem kayaking adventures:</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>1.</strong> Stating a clear and specific goal (that we both understood) such as where we were going.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>2.</strong> Awareness of each other’s efforts. If we both paddled on the left side, we’d turn in circles.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>3.</strong> Allowing for open and nonjudgmental feedback.</p>
<p>When these 3 actions took place before we began paddling, we got to our destination. When they didn’t, we were ineffective, zig zagging across the water. Or, we made small and unnecessarily tiring progress, countering each other&#8217;s effort.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>What</strong> <strong>Synchronized </strong><strong>Teams Have That Others Don&#8217;t </strong></span></h3>
<p>The same actions apply to building successful teams. When teams apply the three actions above to become more synchronized, 3 specific benefits drive them toward success.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>1. Efficiency:</strong> When team members understand the clear and specific goal of the team, they are on the same page. When they are on the same page, they waste less time, energy and effort. Each action smoothly moves the entire team closer to its stated goal.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>2. Effectiveness: </strong>When team members are aware of other’s efforts, they reduce redundancy and maximize forward progress. Effectiveness is all about getting results. When teams are synchronized they become highly effective at achieving their given objectives.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>3. Momentum: </strong>When team members are synchronized, they exhibit Newton’s First Law of Motion. Put simply, it says that objects in motion remain in motion. Open feedback allows for minor course corrections along the way. When that feedback is welcomed and helpful, it moves the team forward, building upon previous successes.</p>
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<p><em>Synchronized teams gain efficiency, effectiveness &amp; momentum which drives results.</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=Synchronized+teams+gain+efficiency%2C+effectiveness+%26amp%3B+momentum+which+drives+results.&#038;via=JustinRFoster&#038;related=JustinRFoster&#038;url=https://theexcellingedge.com/3-ways-synchronization-drives-results/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<p>Whether in business, sports, family or just paddling a tandem kayak, synchronization drives results. Effective communication and being aware of what others are doing are essential components to get in sync. When you establish clear goals, work together and build momentum through quality feedback, you greatly increase your chances of reaching your destination. Synchronized teams go further faster than their competition. Not convinced? Maybe it&#8217;s time to grab a paddle.</p>
<p><i><b>Question: What else does synchronization do for your team? Share your thoughts below the post. I’d love to hear from you.</b></i></p><p>The post <a href="https://theexcellingedge.com/3-ways-synchronization-drives-results/">3 Ways Synchronization Drives Results</a> first appeared on <a href="https://theexcellingedge.com">The Excelling Edge</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
			

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				<description><![CDATA[<img width="760" height="380" src="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Help-Atheltes-Get-More-.png?fit=760%2C380&amp;ssl=1" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" loading="lazy" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Help-Atheltes-Get-More-.png?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Help-Atheltes-Get-More-.png?resize=600%2C300&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Help-Atheltes-Get-More-.png?resize=300%2C150&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Help-Atheltes-Get-More-.png?resize=760%2C380&amp;ssl=1 760w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Help-Atheltes-Get-More-.png?resize=518%2C259&amp;ssl=1 518w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Help-Atheltes-Get-More-.png?resize=82%2C41&amp;ssl=1 82w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px" /><p>Championships are won on the practice field. Yet not all teams practice like champions practice. The truth is, practice doesn’t make perfect. The way in which we practice makes all the difference. So, how can you increase the quality of practice? Edited in Canva Not all practice is created equal As a coach and NCAA [&#8230;]</p>
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					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img width="760" height="380" src="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Help-Atheltes-Get-More-.png?fit=760%2C380&amp;ssl=1" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" loading="lazy" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Help-Atheltes-Get-More-.png?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Help-Atheltes-Get-More-.png?resize=600%2C300&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Help-Atheltes-Get-More-.png?resize=300%2C150&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Help-Atheltes-Get-More-.png?resize=760%2C380&amp;ssl=1 760w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Help-Atheltes-Get-More-.png?resize=518%2C259&amp;ssl=1 518w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Help-Atheltes-Get-More-.png?resize=82%2C41&amp;ssl=1 82w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px" /><p>Championships are won on the practice field. Yet not all teams practice like champions practice. The truth is, practice doesn’t make perfect. The way in which we practice makes all the difference. So, how can you increase the quality of practice?<span id="more-469"></span></p><a href="https://theexcellingedge.com/how-to-help-athletes-get-more-out-of-practice-3-simple-steps/"><img width="760" height="380" src="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Help-Atheltes-Get-More-.png?fit=760%2C380&amp;ssl=1" class="featured-image wp-post-image" alt="" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Help-Atheltes-Get-More-.png?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Help-Atheltes-Get-More-.png?resize=600%2C300&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Help-Atheltes-Get-More-.png?resize=300%2C150&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Help-Atheltes-Get-More-.png?resize=760%2C380&amp;ssl=1 760w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Help-Atheltes-Get-More-.png?resize=518%2C259&amp;ssl=1 518w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Help-Atheltes-Get-More-.png?resize=82%2C41&amp;ssl=1 82w" sizes="(max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px" /></a>
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<div><strong>Not all practice is created equal</strong></div>
<p>As a coach and NCAA athlete myself, I’ve put in my time on the practice field, court, etc. Like many of you, I’ve seen players just go through the motions. On numerous occasions I’ve observed two tennis players rallying with one another, just hitting the ball back and forth with no real intent or purpose. They were not trying to see how many consecutive shots they could hit in a row. Nor were they focused on cross-court rallies, or even constructing points.</p>
<p>These are what some coaches call “junk reps.” I’m sure you’ve seen it too. As a coach, I told my players that in practice they were either (1) getting better or (2) getting worse. Junk reps generally fall into the &#8220;getting worse&#8221; category. So, how can you establish practice conditions that foster a focus on continuous improvement?</p>
<div><b>How can you establish practice conditions that foster a focus on continuous improvement?</b></div>
<p>The key is to increase the amount of focused effort each athlete brings to his or her practice. Goals are the best way to increase focus and effort, making every repetition and drill count.</p>
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<p><em>Players who set goals for practice will improve faster than those who don’t.</em><br /><a href='https://twitter.com/share?text=Players+who+set+goals+for+practice+will+improve+faster+than+those+who+don%E2%80%99t.&#038;via=JustinRFoster&#038;related=JustinRFoster&#038;url=https://theexcellingedge.com/how-to-help-athletes-get-more-out-of-practice-3-simple-steps/' target='_blank'>Click To Tweet</a></p>
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<p><b>Coaches can help their players get more out of practice by applying this 3 part structure.</b></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><b>Part 1: </b>At the beginning of practice, tell your players what the objectives are.</p>
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<li>What is the focus of practice going to be?</li>
<li>What areas do you want to see improvement in?</li>
<li>Set your expectations.</li>
</ul>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><b>Part 2: </b>Based on the intent of the practice plan, have each player set an individual goal.</p>
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<li>What specific element of their game do they want to improve?</li>
<li>It should stretch his/her comfort zone.</li>
<li>He/She needs to identify a way to measure progress and/or success.</li>
</ul>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><b>Part 3: </b>Have coaches and other players provide feedback to each athlete based on his/her goal.</p>
<ul>
<li>Did you achieve your goal?</li>
<li>Why or why not? (no excuses)</li>
<li>What can you do to make improvement going forward?</li>
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<p>This may sound too simple to make a difference, but you’ll notice an increase in focus and effort toward improvement in every drill if you stick with it. Beyond collective goals for practice, setting individual goals helps team members take responsibility for their own improvement. They can be held accountable to it.</p>
<div><strong>Benefits of posting individual goals</strong></div>
<p>Better yet, as they see tangible evidence (through evaluating their practice goals) that they are getting better, their confidence grows. As teammates see each other getting better, the confidence of the team grows. That is a powerful force when it comes game time.</p>
<div><b>Get creative</b></div>
<p>Use index cards or a large whiteboard to capture and track each day’s individual practice goals. One volleyball team I worked with used this strategy to hone their fundamentals and improve player consistency. Champions don’t leave getting better up to chance: they are intentional and relentless with their pursuit of improvement. Deliberate effort applied on the practice court pays off huge when you go toe to toe with your opponent.</p>
<p><i><b>Question: How can you encourage your team to set practice goals to help them get better today? Please share your great ideas in the comments section below.</b></i></p>
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				<description><![CDATA[<img width="760" height="570" src="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/Praise-assortment.jpg?fit=760%2C570&amp;ssl=1" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" loading="lazy" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/Praise-assortment.jpg?w=2048&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/Praise-assortment.jpg?resize=600%2C450&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/Praise-assortment.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/Praise-assortment.jpg?resize=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/theexcellingedge.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/Praise-assortment.jpg?w=1520&amp;ssl=1 1520w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px" /><p>Praise can have damaging effects. To a coworker, &#8220;Wow, you learned that new software fast. You&#8217;re a genius.&#8221; To your boss, &#8220;Great sales pitch, you&#8217;re a natural at working the room.&#8221; To your daughter, &#8220;Way to go Casey. You&#8217;re so smart you got an A on that math test.&#8221;  To your wife, &#8220;You look beautiful in [&#8230;]</p>
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<div>Praise can have damaging effects. To a coworker, &#8220;Wow, you learned that new software fast. You&#8217;re a genius.&#8221; To your boss, &#8220;Great sales pitch, you&#8217;re a natural at working the room.&#8221; To your daughter, &#8220;Way to go Casey. You&#8217;re so smart you got an A on that math test.&#8221;  To your wife, &#8220;You look beautiful in that dress, all done up.&#8221; What is wrong with praise like this?</div>
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<div>The research of Dr. Carol Dweck, author of <i>Mindsets: The New Psychology of Success</i>, finds that praise centered on a person or his/her ability may actually sabotage performance. <span id="more-151"></span>The statements above seem encouraging on the surface, but the recipient grasps a deeper message. The coworker, &#8220;If it takes me longer to learn something, I&#8217;m not that smart after all.&#8221; Your boss, &#8220;If I take risks in my sales pitch, people may discover I have to prepare a lot to deliver like that.&#8221; Your daughter, &#8220;If I want people to think I&#8217;m smart I have to get A&#8217;s. I better not take that honors class.&#8221; Your wife, &#8220;He only thinks I&#8217;m pretty when I&#8217;m all fancied up.&#8221; You get the idea. Thankfully, in contrast, Dweck and others have found praising the process, effort, action or strategy can have quite the opposite effect.</div>
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<div>As a USPTA tennis professional, I went through a fairly thorough certification process. One thing that really stuck with me was what I learned about giving feedback. Players should receive a consistent diet of specific, behavior-based praise to reinforce proper techniques, tactics and other desirable actions. For example, I might say to a player, &#8220;Nice cross-over step, and you kept your racquet out in front on that volley; excellent.&#8221; I caught players doing things right. I quickly learned to praise what I wanted repeated. I taught players to perform consistently by repeating all the right things and thus eliminating undesired actions.</div>
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<div>In classrooms and businesses today, the push is to &#8220;catch people doing something right.&#8221;  Ken Blanchard&#8217;s book by that title employs leaders to focus on the positives, to call out those desired behaviors as a way to empower their team members. Parents, teachers, and coaches can all apply the same approach. Further research suggests that what we recognize and the words we say have huge implications. In fact, we may completely miss the mark if we aren&#8217;t highly attuned to what we are praising in our homes, classrooms and business teams.</div>
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<div><b>If you aim to shape the attitudes and actions of other people (young and old alike), here are 4 compelling reasons you should praise the process:</b></div>
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<div><strong>Praising the Process Leads to Increased Effort and Persistence</strong><br />
Praising people on your team for the progress they made and for how they stayed hopeful in the face of setbacks reinforces those behaviors. Soon your whole team will look for ways to solve problems and overcome obstacles on their own. Doing the same with children helps them focus on applying more effort instead of throwing in the towel when the going gets tough. Praising the process teaches a &#8220;never give up&#8221; attitude and that perseverance pays off through prolonged effort.<br />
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<div><strong>Praising the Process Leads to Greater Enjoyment and Engagement</strong><br />
In contrast, praising only results and outcomes can teach people to overlook how they got there. Sales teams struggle with this when incentives are over-emphasized. A top performer stops producing when he has reached his quota. Teens can be the same way. They learn to take short-cuts, cut corners and give the least amount of effort as long as the assignment is turned in or the goals are met. However, praising others for their creative problem solving, critical thinking and listening to the customer&#8217;s needs focuses them on the path, not the outcome. They learn to enjoy day-to-day work, not just days when they make the sale, ship the product or hit a home run. Kids learn to enjoy learning, discovery and questioning rather than getting the grade and passing the test. Novel idea, I know.<br />
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<div><strong>Praising the Process Leads to Growth</strong><br />
High achievers focus on improvement, honing their craft and getting better. Average achievers aim to prove they have what it takes, the ability or knowhow. For the average performer, success validates what  she hopes to be true about herself &#8211; she has the ability to win. But failures validate worst fears &#8211; she doesn&#8217;t have what it takes. &#8220;I&#8217;m not smart enough for this job.&#8221; Worse, she doesn&#8217;t think she has any control over her ability to learn and grow. Dweck calls this a Fixed Mindset. Praising individuals and their abilities perpetuates this and stifles the individual&#8217;s potential.</div>
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<div>Praising the process, however, teaches team members that they are in control, that they can adapt, learn and improve. A young professional may think, &#8220;I can&#8217;t improve smart, but I can hone my ability to try hard, study, prepare and communicate better.&#8221; Praise that focuses on the strategy that led to success will pay big dividends in that individual&#8217;s future successes. Now she knows what to repeat and sustain to get results.<br />
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<div><strong>Praising the Process Leads to Higher Performance </strong><br />
Nothing worth achieving comes easy. Your organization won&#8217;t accomplish much without its share of obstacles and setbacks. Neither will your family. If a person develops persistence, is engaged and is growing (because you praised the process) it stands to reason that he will also perform at a higher level. He won&#8217;t back down from a challenge because he&#8217;s afraid to fail. Your coworker will get even better at presentations because he prepares. Your daughter will accept the challenge of an honors class. Your wife will know that you appreciate her intellect and diligence, not just her beauty. People will take risks. Those risks may carry great reward, not just around the office, but at home and on the playing field too.</div>
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<p><!--?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="no"?-->&#8220;Where there is genuine encouragement, people excel and succeed, not because they are told to but because they want to,&#8221; said Ronald Reagan. If you want your spouse, students and team to pursue their greatest potential, develop winning streaks or take your organization to the next level, praise. Praising the person, their ability or looks isn&#8217;t all bad. However, you don&#8217;t want it to make up the majority of your praise. Instead, praise the process that led to the successful outcomes. Tell them what you want repeated and it will spread like wild fire. &#8220;Good job&#8221; isn&#8217;t near good enough. Be specific. Keep it coming. That is how to motivate people and take them to the next level again and again.</p>
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<p><b>Question: I&#8217;m curious how you have used praise to shape the actions of people around you. Please share your experiences in the comments below.</b></p>
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<div><b><strong> </strong>Links:</b></div>
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<li>Book: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Catch-People-Doing-Something-Right/dp/1890009644"><i>Catch Them Doing Something Right</i></a> by Ken Blanchard</li>
<li>Book: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Mindset-Psychology-Success-Carol-Dweck-ebook/dp/B000FCKPHG/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;sr=&amp;qid="><i>Mindset: The New Psychology of Success</i></a> by Carol Dweck</li>
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<div>The highest performing teams in sports and business are built on shared purpose, collective effort and strong relationships. All three are needed to achieve excellence. Let&#8217;s focus on the need for strong relationships. For team members to perform at their best, they need connectedness within the team. That is built on trust, knowing others have your back and commitment to one another. When teams aren&#8217;t operating on all cylinders, performance suffers.</div>
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<div>With the recent publication of books like <i>The SPEED of Trust</i> from Steven M.R. Covey and <i>Love Does</i> from Bob Goff, it seems excelling businesses are putting more emphasis on the importance of relationships in the workplace. Let&#8217;s be honest, think about your top performers. Do they feel valued, understood, validated and cared for? Those who do likely work harder, produce more and are more committed to the overall purpose of the organization.</div>
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<div>Shelly Gable, professor at the University of California Santa Barbara, has studied how the way we respond to other&#8217;s positive events and good news impacts relationships. While her focus was in the context of personal relationships, I believe it has implications for how we operate as teams in business, sports and at home. True to the discipline of positive psychology, Gable encourages us to focus on what we can learn from successful relationships, not what&#8217;s wrong with the bad ones.</div>
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<div>One way to cultivate a culture of relationship is to encourage your team to demonstrate what Shelly Gable calls &#8220;Capitalizing&#8221; or active constructive responding (ACR) when team members share positive events. ACR is characterized by actively showing genuine interest and constructive enthusiasm. Gable found that there are four ways people tend to respond to other&#8217;s positive events (outlined below). More importantly, only 1 of these 4 ways of responding builds stronger relationships. The other 3 are destroying the relationships your team relies on to win.</div>
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<div>Being active and constructive in our responses to other&#8217;s positive events isn&#8217;t easy. Allow me to give you an example of the four typical responses to other&#8217;s good news. Listen for familiar themes you hear from your team.</div>
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<div>Picture this: Your good friend and fellow sales rep approaches you after a meeting, bright eyed with a huge smile, and joyfully announces that she finally landed that big account.</div>
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<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><b>A passive constructive response:</b> &#8220;That&#8217;s great.&#8221; Returning your attention to checking your email, you smile and nod. &#8220;What&#8217;s wrong with that?,&#8221; you might ask. Your teammate feels embarrassed, unimportant and that you don&#8217;t really care about her. It isn&#8217;t a terrible response, but it lacks heart and connection. Surely that distraction can wait just a minute.</div>
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<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>A passive destructive response: </strong>Either, &#8220;Hey, want to grab lunch one day next week?&#8221; basically ignoring the event all together, or, &#8220;You won&#8217;t believe what happened this morning,&#8221; which turns the conversation to yourself. Your good friend stutters to a halt, not sure you even heard her. &#8220;Here we go again,&#8221; she thinks, because you regularly steal the conversation. She walks away feeling devalued, deflated and demotivated. Soon, she won&#8217;t be choosing you to share her excitement with. Or, much else for that matter.</div>
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<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><b>An active destructive response: </b>&#8220;Big account? That&#8217;s a lot of pressure. You are going to have to fly to Chicago a lot more now. I thought you didn&#8217;t want to miss more of your son&#8217;s games.&#8221; &#8211;  taking the wind right out of her sails. Her excitement turns to anxiety, worry and fear. <i>Maybe I made the wrong move. I should have thought of that.</i> You just effectively crushed her moment of happiness like a child stomping on the birthday present you gave him.</div>
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<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><strong>An active constructive response:</strong> </strong>&#8220;Wow, that&#8217;s great, I&#8217;m so excited for you. Tell me how it happened.&#8221; &#8211; continue with follow up questions that show genuine interest, support and help them savor the moment. <strong>This is our target response.</strong> Your teammate&#8217;s face lights up. She feels valued, understood and cared about. As she recounts the success, you both both grow in<strong> </strong>excitement. The relationship grows too as you genuinely listen and show you care for her. Plan on hearing more good stuff from your friend in the future. <strong><br />
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<div>Hopefully you can see the significance of active constructive responding (ACR) and how the other three can slowly deteriorate a relationship over time. It is important for you and your team to develop the skill of ACR and build a culture that values relationship.</div>
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<div><b>To help me be more intentional with ACR, here are 4 suggestions keep me focused on building the strong relationships we all need to be successful.<br />
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<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>#1: </strong>Put aside distractions. Focus in on the other person for just a few minutes and give them my full attention.</div>
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<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><b>#2: </b>Hold my 2 cents, doubts or wisdom to myself. I know that even if I have concerns, the moment of excitement isn&#8217;t the time to have them be heard. These are best kept to a future conversation, even when my concerns are well intended.</div>
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<div style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>#3: </strong>Express authentic interest. Smile. Express how proud or happy I am of the other person. Lean in with curiosity to ask a few follow-up questions that encourage the other person to share more about the event or experience.</div>
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<div>Everyone wins. Their happiness was multiplied. And, as it turns out, its contagious. I walk away more energized too.</div>
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<div>Do you want the people around you to experience greater life satisfaction, higher positive emotions and greater relationship well-being? If so, try to give them a steady diet of ACR. Chances are, you&#8217;ll boost their engagement, motivation and satisfaction in their work as a result. Hopefully the 4 principles above can help keep you on track and build stronger teams at work, on the field and at home. It is well worth the investment.</div>
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<div><b>Question: How might ACR transform your team? What other strategies help you build stronger relationships in your teams? Please share your ideas in the comments below. </b></div>
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<li>Article: <a href="http://www.psych.rochester.edu/people/reis_harry/assets/pdf/GableReisImpettAsher_2004.pdf">What Do You Do When Things Go Right?</a> The Intrapersonal and Interpersonal Benefits of Sharing Positive Events. <a href="http://www.psych.rochester.edu/people/reis_harry/assets/pdf/GableReisImpettAsher_2004.pdf"><br />
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<li>Article: <a href="http://coachingtowardhappiness.com/pdf/WillYouBeThereForMeWhenThingsGoRight.pdf">Will You Be There for Me When Things Go Right? Supportive Responses to Positive Event Disclosures.</a></li>
<li>Book: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/SPEED-Trust-Thing-Changes-Everything-ebook/dp/B000MGATWG/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1392506155&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=trust+stephen+covey"><em>The SPEED of Trust</em></a> by Stephen M.R. Covey.</li>
<li>Book: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Love-Does-Discover-Secretly-Incredible-ebook/dp/B0078FA8HU/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1392506247&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=love+does+bob+goff"><em>Love Does</em></a> by Bob Goff</li>
<li>Website: <a href="https://www.psych.ucsb.edu/people/faculty/gable">Shelly Gable</a> at the University of California Santa Barbara</li>
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